Saturday, October 13, 2007

Men!

Man, things get so confusing. I'm still confused about MB#1's phone call. I don't know if the wife was around or not, or if he was lonely. I'm not sure why he called - he never really said.

Then, MB#2 - he really wants to date me, but I'm not that into him. We did go out last night to dinner and a movie. But nothing happened. I don't mind hanging out with him, but as of now, he's still married. His divorce is final in November. And I told him that he needs to be by himself for some time after his divorce. And that I didn't want to be his rebound person. And that we have to think about our friendship as well. So he seemed to be fine with that. I don't know - we'll see. He really wants something to happen with us and I'm not ready and I don't know if I'm interested.

Then, MB#3. this is the most confusing one. If he wasn't married, he would have asked me out, wined and dined me. And he wants to know what will happen with us. The sad thing is that I would go out with him if he wasn't married. But he is. He's just a lot of fun, and he's pretty sexy. But he's married! We're going to happy hour on Friday, with some former work folks. And I might see him Thursday after my dentist appointment. But he's married!!!

So why is it that I only seem to be interested in people who are taken? And then when they're not, I'm not interested? Or is it easier for me to be interested in them because I know it won't go anywhere and I then won't get hurt? That's something to think about.

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